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The Essential checklist before starting
to date
Dating is a great way to meet potential
partners but in order to get what you want
and need, you have to know what it is you
are seeking. Before starting serious
dating, it is essential to be clear on
your needs and what you are looking for in
dating.
Many people have been running from
disappointment to disappointment in their
relationships because they did not know
what they really wanted and needed. There
are millions of singles available and
looking for their soul mates. One person
is exactly right for you and dating can
reveal that person.
Before
starting to date, it is a very good
exercise to literally sit down and write
what you want and need in a spouse. The
list can actually be separated into two
columns: the things you need and the
things you cannot live with. By respecting
the list, you will lower the risk of
disappointment in the future.
There will be items on your list that
will carry low importance. Such items as
the height of your date or the color of
his eyes can easily be changed depending
on the person you meet.
The other strong items such as if a
person is already married or rude should
never be compromised. Many relationships
have failed because the person has ignored
their true feelings and tried to
compromise on important things such as
life goals.
Another big mistake when dating is
pursuing a relationship in the hope that
the person will change. The only person
you can change is yourself. If a person
keeps on dating a person that she resents
for his drinking problems, in the hope he
will quit one day, she is setting herself
and the entire relationship on the path to
failure.
Dating should be great fun and seldom
will a person meet her soul mate on the
very first date. Hence, while dating one
should enjoy the moment and look at it
more as a way to have a good time. When
the stars get in line and the relationship
grows into something more significant,
romance and love will come. Be
patient!
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